Here are the instructions I gave earlier:
Frosting:
1/2 cup butter, softened
1 cup brown sugar, melted and cooled a bit
1/4 cup milk
1-1/2 cups confectioners' sugar
Make the frosting: Beat together the butter and the brown sugar. Alternately add milk and confectioners' sugar, beating until smooth with each addition. Spread the frosting onto the cakes.
I took these notes straight from my recipe files, and I know I've made the frosting before; so why did something go wrong today???
So today -- after a VERY stressful and rather miserable day -- I defrosted the rest of the cupcakes for tomorrow's dessert, and I set about making my caramel frosting. This would be therapeutic for me, right??? Groan ....
First the sugar wouldn't melt. So I added about 1 or 2 tablespoons of water (in all honesty, I just dribbled it from the faucet into the saucepan) and then the sugar liquified ... except for a number of chunks that wouldn't melt, wouldn't smush, wouldn't blend in, wouldn't cooperate at all. Oh, well -- I left 'em in.
But when I poured even the cooled mixture over the butter, everything melted. Add the confectioners' sugar ... and stare down at brownish liquid. Add some more confectioners' sugar ... now stare down at tan-ish liquid. Add virtually every scrap of confectioners' sugar in your cupboard ... and watch it clump up. Add a touch of half-and-half (because you have a 19-year-old son who drinks a gallon of milk every day and didn't leave any for you) and finally watch the frosting become creamy ... with the exception of the little brown sugar nibs.
So, how does it taste??? That is, of course, a key component. It tastes fabulous! The little sugar nibs add some texture and character, though I'd have preferred smooth frosting. And the cupcakes will be okay. But I just wanted to be sure everyone knew that they'd have to either tinker with what I wrote or simply use a favorite frosting recipe of their own. I couldn't, in good conscience, just let folks try this as it was written and then wonder what they'd done wrong ....